Do you feel like you have no where to go?
Do you feel stuck or maybe trapped?
Aimless? Hurting? Emotional pain?
Here’s a slice of my story…
I was famished for connection. Truth be told for adult conversation. Yes, I was married but I lived in an emotional abusive marriage and was not invited into adult conversations.
Webster’s dictionary states, “Loneliness is cut off from others, not frequented by human beings, and produces a feeling of bleakness or desolation.” Whew, not frequented by human beings like a vacant soul.
Change up the bleakness, purposelessness, and invite the Holy Spirit to spread over and take over your empty feelings. God will fill the inner gnawing of connection, but we must allow Him access. Will you?
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I know that answer and it is no, He has not. God knows you. God sees you. God cares.
For example, for years I lived in emotional abuse.
That is when someone over a period of time and the same person continually devalues you.
Maybe the person doesn’t call you by name, doesn’t acknowledge you, or talk to you by inviting you into a conversation.
Plus they love to control, especially men or women that are narcissist.
They want to make all the decisions and you are to agree with them.
IF you go against them they just know how to make it look like it is your fault. You may begin to believe the lies about yourself. And over time you may feel like you are going crazy.
So where do you turn when you think God has forgotten you?
For me, I KEPT turning to God and to the Word…as it is truth. It is. God’s word works.
I knew this verse and I clung to it. 2 Corinthians 1:3-4 states, “ Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction so that we will be able to comfort those who are in any affliction with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.”
I knew if I waited for God to show me each step to take and if I allowed Him to comfort me, He would use that PAIN or difficulty in my life to comfort others.
And dear one, why do you think, I have my own coaching business, speak, teach, and write on behalf of women? I get this pain. I get this question. I know God has not forgotten you.
Turn to Him. Receive one verse today. Let me hear what verse it is.Share with me!
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I wish I had known this answer many years ago. And I am writing this from years of experience and reading. I’m no Dr. but for years I did experience emotional pain.
But no longer and I am set free and very thankful. Now I can help others and coach them. So if emotional pain is growing inside you, get help. Seek a counselor or a coach is my suggestion!
I learned there are two kinds of pain we have in life.
I love this verse in James 5:16, “Therefore, confess your sins to one another, and pray for one another so that you may be healed. The effective prayer of a righteous man can accomplish much. “
Let me share with you that sometimes that sharing is how you react in sinful ways. Also it might be what other people are doing to you or have done to you. That my friend begins to break the power and control of the secret.
If you want to share why you are frustrated, isolated, or why the emotional pain is growing, I am here coaching women. Browse my site. read the blogs. Email me!
And if you are dreading the holidays then learn how to guard your heart for the holidays. I would love to have you join me. Hurry time is running out!
Well tis that time of the year very soon!
You know most of us love holidays. But, I have learned over the years that not all holidays are great, fond, and wonderful. Especially for those that have toxic people in their life and then to be caught in their pathway. They can spit their pain onto you and others while it’s a holiday!
PLUS, grief, loss and transitions can suck us in too.
So let me coach you and challenge you and offer comfort. Let’s Work together!
So easy to dial in, stay at home, yet feel connected and cared for with others that
I was so so tired of being ignored by the person I trusted above all.
For me I knelt down, opened my Bible and landed on this verse.
For the eyes of the Lord move to and fro throughout the earth that He may strongly support those whose heart is completely His … (2 Chronicles 16:9a NASB)
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Toxic people leave you bleeding emotionally, pain filled, wounded, sad, discouraged and believing it is all you.
3. You will learn what to do when venom is spit on you.
4. And you will learn three steps to empower you to guard your heart.