Are you frustrated with the cards you’ve been dealt?
Death. Pain. Cancer. Divorce. Accidents. Tornadoes. Hurricanes. Disappointments. Abuse.
You have a choice.
Either fight the bad pain filled cards or embrace them.
You can change.
For ten years I have coached women. Can you relate to any of their statements?
I am so frustrated.
I cannot focus.
I want to live freely.
I want to go forward… Oh, I longed to go forward too in my life. And as soon as I knew my life purpose and began to voice the truth of my story, I stepped and ever so slowly, my life shifted forward.
I hear women say: (and let me add, this is not to bash men. Since I know women that are abusive). But. I only coach women.
He tells me what I can and what I cannot do.
He tells me I should feel this way or should NOT.
He accuses me of things that are not true, like I don’t care and I don’t love him.
He tells me, I am crazy.
He tells me, I don’t need friends.
He tells me, it’s all my fault.
I ask you dear precious woman created in the image of God, who can tell you how you feel?
Who can tell you that you do not need people?
Who can tell you when you need to go to bed and when to stay up, when you are an adult?
Is there any wonder why you are frustrated?
If you need coaching with the frustration and anger I know it well, friend. Anger was a snare used on me and until I learned to die to the old ways of reacting in anger could I be set free.
And then God showed me my coaching skills. So I get this subject very well.
Walk in freedom. Embrace your stories, or they’ll rob you of life.
Contact me Darlene@heartswithapurpose.com
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The first fear I needed to keep stepping away from was the fear of death. Was I the next Terrell to die? Does fear
leave its mark on our bodies? I came upon this verse, “Men’s hearts
failing them for fear…” Luke 21:26. It caused me to pause; especially
after medical reports state fear can lead to heart attacks. My father’s
my brother, Bill’s, triple by-pass blared the warning. I made haste to see
After running the gamut of cardiac tests I was informed, “Plumbing side
looks good; yet, the
electrical side is not beating in sync.” I did not have peace with the Doctor’s
recommendation to what he wanted to perform. I desired time to get my life in balance and
intentionally invite more peace. Fear was all over my heart chambers knocking me down as it
sprayed stress. Why so much fear?
When Allan had died I pictured myself in the casket. I looked death in the eyes. I am ready to
meet Jesus, so why fear it? A ridiculous time waster, a robber of peace, from the enemy to get
me focused on that fear. Here I was still alive. And I told God if any good could come from
Allan’s early death let it begin with me…. Hearts with a Purpose! And more of my story…
I mean those that leave your head spinning and you ask yourself, What did they say?
Their words stick to you. Blame you. Accuse you. Confuse you. You leave their presence really frustrated, angry, and practicing your next conversation with them in your head. Preparing for a heated battle.
The kicker is, you spend hours of your thought life allowing them to control your day.
So are you ready to change your reaction to Crazy Makers?
I am an expert in this area. I know crazy makers well. I clocked hours of being in the front
roll lab of life studying a crazy makers behavior. Now, to help others!
Even though I lived in abuse for over two decades…I still know the cycle that women get stuck and sucked into.
Let’s set up a plan to make 2016 a year
FULL of turning points for you!
From chaos to focus.
From purposelessness to purpose.
From hopelessness to a future.
From anger to love…it can be done.
One step at a time.
Funerals have changed my life!
Today, I attended a funeral of a cousin who passed unexpectedly and at a young age. The funeral home was packed with standing room only. The message delivered was real, honest, and the Truth was shared. Whimpers and sobs from deep pain and noses being blown were seen and heard. The procession of cars was long to the cemetery and the temperatures of 15 degrees made it worse.
Ten years ago, I stood at a cemetery burying my youngest brother who was 40. The pain from His death cut deep. It jolted me out from the land of denial. “Pay attention to your purpose, Darlene, get stepping forward.” And that is why I do what I do with coaching women towards their life purpose.
I died in many ways “internally” when my brother died. I surrendered my life then. Faced forward and walked out steps that led to exposing lies and living out the Truth. Funerals can be used for good, if you allow the pain to speak.
And the wonderful news about my cousin, I will see him again, as He surrendered His life to the Lord of Lords in the hospital before he died. He was given new life.
This is one reason why I coach women!
I clung to this passage over thirty years ago knowing God is true to His Word and He will not waste my pain.
“Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction so that we will be able to comfort those who are in any affliction with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God. For just as the sufferings of Christ are ours in abundance, so also our comfort is abundant through Christ.” 2 Corinthians 1:2-5
In what situations has God shown me His comfort…
- Years of Infertility – Classroom of Waiting.
- Adoption of my first daughter – His Divine-love Appointment
- Adoption of my second daughter – His Divine-love Appointment
- Career Chaos – God Provides
- Abusive Marriage – God’s Boot Camp
- Adoption of my son – His Divine-love Appointment
- Death of my Father, Brother – God awakens me from the land of denial
- All in 40 days – death of my Mother, Abandonment, Home Foreclosure, Served Divorce Papers—God is near to the broken hearted.
And there is more – much more – as God turns my life around to bring Him glory.
Another reason I coach women is to inspire women to become all that their Creator made them to be. God kept me alive after living in an abusive marriage for over a quarter of a century that was likened to living in solitary confinement. Yet God saw it all. For that reason I can coach women from any area in their life to another, as I have been at the bottom of the heap. God and I stepped together to go forward in life. He heals mutilated hearts to further the Kingdom work here on earth.
Are you living mentally well from a mind that is set upon the truth?
Are you living well in the financial domain of your life?
Are you living well from the spiritual center of your life?
Are you living well in the relationship domain of your life?
Are you living well from the physical domain of your life?
Are you living out your vocation?