Does anyone see me?
I hurt so bad. I wanted validation of my worth. I wanted to be acknowledged. I wanted to be called by my name. I wanted my life to count. I wanted to be used for good and not abused.
I was so so tired of being ignored by the person I trusted above all.
Can you relate dear friend?
Where do you turn?
For me I knelt down, opened my Bible and landed on this verse.
For the eyes of the Lord move to and fro throughout the earth that He may strongly support those whose heart is completely His … (2 Chronicles 16:9a NASB)
- Believe that God was looking for hearts tipped toward Him.
- Believe that God saw me in the isolation I lived in at the house on the hill.
- Believe that God would strongly support… (And looky what He has done? I am a Life Purpose Coach for Women. Check over Hearts with a Purpose website). He showed me His strong support in so many ways!!!
- BUT, I MUST give my heart to God.
- Seek Him
- Stay in the position of humility and needing God!
- Abide in Him. Wait for God to lead you step by step out of the abuse to the land of freedom to discover your life purpose. He does see you as the Word states!
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How do I get my heart back from abuse and toxicity?
Learn and leave with how to guard your Heart!
Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.
- Is your heart crushed?
- Are you sick of toxic venom that is spit at you?
- Are you blamed for everything?
- Are you so TIRED of being ignored?
- Are you told you should, you need, you better?,
- Does your heart need some love and attention?
- Then join me, you will not be sorry! Take back your HEART! Read more!
With Julie’s permission I share her story!
Enable Me, Lord, to Shift—from my former manner of life… to be renewed in the spirit of my mind.
that, in reference to your former manner of life, you lay aside the old self, which is being corrupted in accordance with the lusts of deceit, and that you be renewed in the spirit of your mind, and put on the new self, which in the likeness of God has been created in righteousness and holiness of the truth. (Ephesians 4:22-24 NASB)
Daily Julie had to argue down the lies that she was going to fail. Her counselor, her doctor, and I, cheered her on, believe truth. Stay in the game. Live. But doubts caused her to back step then sidestep. Who’s going to like my art work? What if I fail? What if I cannot create anymore? The “what ifs” dogged her.
Julie acted her way into her purpose. She stepped into her studio. She let go of one lie, two lies, three lies, as she organized, cleaned, and prepped her space like warming her heart up to create. Her mental gears then shifted to truth.
The day came. Julie picked up a pen. Sketched. Used paint. She said, “Darlene this is hard work. But, I’ve never felt so empowered. It’s me.” She had retrained her mind to the truth and died to the lies of the past, “that, in reference to your former manner of life, you lay aside the old self, which is being corrupted in accordance with the lusts of deceit, and that you be renewed in the spirit of your mind, and put on the new self, which in the likeness of God has been created in righteousness and holiness of the truth.”
Julie tasted victory but fear kept hounding her. She invited me to her studio for a prayer coaching session. We prayed over each canvas piece. God, please use her giftedness to reach out to the heart of the viewer. And even to those that don’t know Jesus. Use her story of how she fought and clawed her way through the dark valley of depression and how you led her. Help her create and not fear. We thank you, Lord. Unstuck from the old scripts of deception, Julie shares her story and her art work is on display in galleries around the United States.
- What is the first lie you need to let go of?
- I will step toward the truth of_____________________.
- I will seek help for _____________________.
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Six Reasons -Why Life Coaching Works with Coach Darlene?
- A woman speaks her heart’s desire in a shame free atmosphere.
- A woman shares her pain, passion, and pitfalls in a safe spot.
- A woman spits out her mistaken thinking.
- I ask her the tough questions. Question asker!
- I plant the seeds of truth. Seed planter!
- I cast the vision after hearing her heart’s desires with passion and purpose. Then we set up steps to close the gap from her current life to the life she was meant to live with her purpose!
Thank you for reminding me that God loves me and that he has a plan specifically made, just for me. You were patient with me as we worked through my doubt, fear, insecurity, and finally surrendering it all to God. Identifying my God given spiritual gifts and how they compliment my strengths, has given me clarity, confidence, and courage to step out and follow God’s plan for me with much anticipation and excitement. I can’t tell you how good it feels to be stepping forward and getting out of a stagnant life. Thank you, again, for talking truth, in love, into my life and being such a blessing to me. Cora
Wow, I did it. The faceting room is 85% uncluttered. I am so excited. It feels really good. Thank you so much for hearing me and encouraging me. Barb
Thank you so much for the life coaching. I met you at a time in my life when I didn’t know what I wanted from the future. After the passing of my husband and my kids leaving home, I really had no idea what direction I wanted to go. You helped me to clarify my thoughts and determine what my strengths are. I now know that God has a plan for me and I am trusting in him to fulfill that plan. Thank you! Susan
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By the way, I wanted to tell you that I watched your videos and enjoyed them very much! Finally, a BIG THANK-YOU for being willing to hear my heart! What an amazing gift you have! I am honored to be heard by you! BEV
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A shock is a disturbing upsetting event or situation!
They leave us spinning.
I have had my share of sudden changes in life and would love not to have anymore. But, that isn’t life.
We must live in reality and realize we can only control our-self and learn how to handle oneself during and after a shocking report.
Here are only five life suddenly s that I have experienced.
- Receiving a phone call that my brother was not responding to medics and it didn’t look good. I needed to head to the hospital.
- Receiving a phone call that a home I lived in had the foreclosure sign posted to it.
- Being threatened and bullied multiple times with words that, I would have no money, heat, electricity, or gas.
- The reaction of an abuser after I exposed the abuse.
- Watching my teens leave property for the last time after we had lived under one roof.
I could only control me. And you can only control you.
#1 What do I need to do that day to help step that day?
(Call on apartments, get dressed, eat, rest, take a walk, pray, talk to a counselor or coach…)
#2 What do I need to learn new to go forward?
(Find out more info, discover a new Dr., talk to a friend, find a verse to anchor to…)
#3 What can I do to help my thought life so it doesn’t run wild in anxiety and fear?
(Focus on what you know, think truthful thoughts, listen to good music, add verses into your life… )
This verse tells us where we can go in the midst of shock and pain in life, “These things I have spoken to you, so that in Me you may have peace. In the world you have tribulation, but take courage; I have overcome the world” (John 16:33 NASB). We will have problems, but He will grant us peace if we choose to go to the Lord.
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A woman asked me to address this topic. For some of you women reading this, it’s no issue for you to believe in yourself. But for some women reading this they have not been surrounded by believing mirrors in their life. They have had so much pinned on them by toxic people in their childhood, bullied or raped in high school, and maybe a college failure, and or into a marriage or career that has not gone as they had expected.
If you have not had others try to change you, dictate to you who you are, or pin their garbage on you through projecting, then I suggest you STOP right now, look up, and thank your Almighty Father God.
In my own journey I had believing mirrors all around me up until the age of 25 years old. Then I became the target of another person’s projecting. The medical definition of project from Merriam Webster’s Online Dictionary means, “to attribute or assign (something in one’s own mind or a personal characteristic) to a person or group.” So people try to pin their own thoughts, ideas, or issues on YOU! And many women and men have been tainted by other’s venom.
So we women have work to do to begin to believe in oneself. And take back our life to live!
And the best one that can help us believe in oneself is our Creator Himself! Enable Me, Lord, to Shift—from insecurity . . . to chosen
just as He chose us in Him before the foundation of the world… (Ephesians 1:4a NASB)
Remember the childhood game, “Red Rover, Red Rover, send Annie right on over?” Your name is shouted out, called out, desired, needed, and chosen from the opposite team. Blood rushed through your veins as you made a mad dash to the other side to break through their linked arms in order to capture a player. You grabbed the opposing team member and took them back to your side as the conquering victor. It was a “chosen” moment.
More than a childhood “chosen” moment is when a woman allows the truth into the core of her being. She is a chosen daughter of the King of Kings. Receiving this one truth is like pouring love cement down into her foundation creating a solid rock of stability.
Before He created the universe, the Lord Himself had His designer eye on you. He thought of you. And chose you to be in an intimate relationship with Himself, just as He chose us in Him before the foundation of the world. He formed you. Can you receive this truth right into your heart? This heart shift is bedrock to getting away from grinding the gears of insecurity.
Whether it means getting picked for a worship team spot, a speaking engagement, landing a job, an adoption placement, a date, a girlfriend relationship, an invitation to a party, a coffee date, or a Bible study, women long to know they were chosen, desired, and invited. However, once you receive the truth deep within, He chose you, you will not be gripped by the hands of insecurity. Instead, you are cemented into His everlasting security.
Try taking a bubble bath and soak and saturate in this one truth, just as He chose us in Him before the foundation of the world. I am hand-picked, cherry-picked, selected, chosen, and preferred, indeed. Would it not make a difference? Try it!
So how do I believe in myself? THREE TIPS!
- Open your Bible.
- Start with the Truth. The above verse, pray it, believe it, chew it, swallow it until you know it!
- Be coached to have the truth move from your head to your heart! Darlene offers payment plans! Be Coached By Darlene to discover all of YOU and LIVE!
In order to change we must look at our life
and evaluate it to the standard of Truth!
Let’s go to work!
The smiles of many Christian women have faded. Thousands of women are serving in churches in the name of Jesus. Yet, beneath their masked smiles, doubt, fear, exhaustion, and questions battle.
I know because the battle was mine. “Is God relevant for me today?” “Is it worth my time and effort to pick up a Bible?” “Does Scripture speak to the pain I’m facing?”
Women today are caught in a frantic cycle of “doing all” to “fix it all.” Their struggle to juggle the should-haves, ought-tos, you betters, and need-tos, leads to endless busyness. Our motives may vary, but we are living fast-paced, fear-driven lives as we frantically scour the web or shopping aisles for peace neatly wrapped up in pleasure. We try hard to keep up, and fight to keep others from seeing our struggle
Decades ago, my father taught me to drive an old stick-shift farm truck. At first I couldn’t feel the nuances of the vehicle. I fought to grind the gears from first to third. Then in frustration, I’d sit and idle in agitation. It wasn’t until I learned to feel the rhythms of the engine that I mastered the lesson.
This has been the story of my walk with God. For too many years I struggled to go forward, but was jerked backwards because of the lies from abuse. Only as I learned to listen to God’s voice and shift my movements to his Truth have I learned to live, really live.
In order to change, we must look at who we are and evaluate our life right.
- What lies do you believe about yourself?
- What lies do you believe about God?
- What lies do you believe about others?
Jesus is the enabler for freedom living. And I so happen to have been blessed with learning His Word while living in toxicity and having deep emotional pain. He heals. He leads. His Word Works. be coached to discover YOU!
Here are a few lies I hear often from women:
- I am not good enough.
- I can not do that.
- I am too old.
- Impossible to step.
- Someone else can do that.
- I am not smart enough.
- How, I have no money.
- I do not know how to do that.
- It is too late in life for me.
- At this stage of life?
- … and many more.
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Acknowledge the lies you live from.
Confess the lie and learn the truth instead.
Take inventory of the damage the lie(s) are doing to your life. ACT today! SHIFT TO LIVE!