Five side effects of shame based thinking!

Five side effects of shame based thinking!

Shame based thinking is accusation driven and performance based living. You should. You could.  You better. You ought to. You must. 1. Shame pins you down. 2. It holds you back. 3. You spin in one spot. 4. And ruminate over and over and over. 5. And yet to never...
What is shame and its lie?

What is shame and its lie?

What is shame and its lie? Shame is all about pinning you down and holding you back from freedom. It’s accusation driven. And driven to the core of your heart for you to believe, the lie, that you are NO GOOD!   Picture someone pointing their finger at you and...
How do you stop shame-based thoughts?

How do you stop shame-based thoughts?

How do you stop shame-based thoughts? Shame is all about pinning you to the wall or holding you back and down. It’s accusation driven. You should. You could.  You better. You ought to. You must. Let me give you a little example. And with her permission. I was on...
Imagine having nothing to hide!

Imagine having nothing to hide!

Imagine having nothing to hide! Are you hiding? Hiding something? Hiding someone? This newsletter header, Imagine having nothing to hide, had an open rate of over 89.1% last week. That is the highest ever open rate for Hearts with a Purpose Newsletters in over 14...
What does shame do to a woman?

What does shame do to a woman?

What does shame do to a woman? Shame sucks life from a woman! Carrie hung her head. Premarital sex, exotic dancer, and only she knew more of the sex stories. All were part of her résumé of shame. However, her actions changed when she met Jesus. But the shameful scenes...